Brenda J. Smith

Feb 12th, 1957 - Sep 2nd, 2014
19 Guests

Visitation:

Mitchell-Hughes Funeral Home

Sat, Sep. 6th, 2014 5:00 PM ~ 8:00 PM

Service:

Mitchell-Hughes Funeral Home

Sun, Sep. 7th, 2014 2:00 PM

Burial:

Davis Prairie Cemetery

Sun, Sep. 7th, 2014 3:00 PM

Marion- Brenda J. Smith, age 57, of Marion, passed away at 1:18pm on Tuesday, September 2, 2014 at Tri-Point Medical Center in Painesville, Ohio surrounded by her husband and pastor.

Brenda was born in Joliet on February 12, 1957, the daughter of William and Rosetta (Hellberg) Stapleton. She married Jeff P. Smith in Marion on April 22, 1978. He survives in Madison, Ohio.

Brenda graduated from Marion High School in 1975. She also graduated from Olney Central College. Mrs. Smith was an active member of the Mentor United Methodist Church in Mentor, Ohio. She worked as a certified para professional at Brentmoor Elementary School and also enjoyed tutoring for the Woodlawn Ministry.

Survivors include her husband- Jeff P. Smith of Madison, Ohio
Daughter and Son-In-Law- Samantha and Adam Dahmer of Marion, IL
Brother- Billy Stapleton of Pittsburg, IL
Brother- Bobby Stapleton of Simpson, IL

She was preceded in death by her parents and one sister- Patty Peppers.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00pm on Sunday, September 7, 2014 at Mitchell-Hughes Funeral Home in Marion with Rev. John Holst officiating. Burial will follow at Davis Prairie Cemetery. Visitation will be held from 5-8pm on Saturday, September 6, 2014 at Mitchell-Hughes Funeral Home in Marion.

At a future date, a celebration of life service will be held at Mentor United Methodist Church in Mentor, Ohio.

For those who prefer, memorial donations may be made to the Mentor United Methodist Church Building Fund. Envelopes will be available and accepted at Mitchell-Hughes Funeral Home; 800 N Market Street; Marion, IL 62959. For more information or to sign the memorial guest register, please visit www.hughesfuneralhomes.com

19 Guestbook Messages

  • Guest: Melanie Smith Yearack

    From: Marion, Illinois

    Date: September 4, 2014

    Jeff: So saddened to hear this news. I remember Brenda well from high school and 3rd Baptist Church. Her kind spirit, sweet smile and good heart will always be remembered. She had an infectious smile and a graceful presence. Gerry and I will be remembering you and your family during this time.

  • Guest: Kerri Klein

    From: Painesville, Ohio

    Date: September 4, 2014

    Missing Brenda daily. I keep expecting her to walk in the door at work. She was such a positive influence, always positive and cheerful. Keeping you in my prayers.

  • Guest: Anne Leisure

    From: Mentor, Ohio

    Date: September 5, 2014

    I was just thinking of Brenda the other day and remembering how she was so kind and thoughtful to us especially when Allyson would miss the school bus. She told me that if ever Allyson needed her she should call her and she would take her to school. What a God sent especially when work determines how quickly you can respond to your child’s needs. I am sure God is being kind and loving to her right now. All of you will be in my prayers.

  • Guest: Nancy Peacock Schrock

    From: Pensacola, Florida

    Date: September 5, 2014

    Looking back on the friendships in my life, Brenda was one of those friends who are golden. For many years after high school, we kept in touch at birthdays and Christmas. February 12 will always be Brenda’s birthday for me. About four or five years ago, we both had moved and lost touch. I tried a few routes to find out her new address, but didn’t try hard enough.
    Life is short. Heaven gained an angel, and we lost one.

  • Guest: Kathy Wahlgren

    From: Mentor, Ohio

    Date: September 5, 2014

    My sympathy to Brenda’s loved ones. I had the privilege of working with Brenda at Hopkins Elementary. Brenda is a sweet, gentle soul. She was oh so proud of her daughter and loved to talk about her. I will always remember the twinkle in her eyes, her great smile, along with a heart full of compassion & kindness for others. May her Lord comfort & strengthen those grieving her passing.

  • Guest: Mary Jo Anderson

    From: Mentor, Ohio

    Date: September 5, 2014

    We are all sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
    Roy, Mary Jo, Ben and Jessica Anderson

  • Guest: Rick & Patty Chew

    From: Roswell, Georgia

    Date: September 5, 2014

    Jeff,

    We are so sorry to hear about Brenda and will be praying for God’s grace to see you and your family through this difficult time.

    Rick & Patty

  • Guest: Lois Bradley Gibbons

    From: Carterville, Illinois

    Date: September 5, 2014

    Dear Jeff,

    We are so sorry for your loss. Barbara Lou Moore and I remember Brenda fondly and all of the good times we had together on the church bus. She was a very sweet person and she will be missed but always remembered.

    You will be in our thoughts and prayers in the days ahead.

    Sending our love……………

  • Guest: Desiree Welborn

    From: Rock Hill, South Carolina

    Date: September 5, 2014

    Jeff,
    My thought and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God’s grace give you comfort and peace

  • Guest: Jim & Carolyn Hanna

    From: Hudson, Ohio

    Date: September 5, 2014

    Dear Jeff,

    Carolyn and I are so very sorry to hear about Brenda. You and your family are in our prayers.

    Jim & Carolyn

  • Guest: Lou Guidotti

    From: Mooresville, North Carolina

    Date: September 5, 2014

    Jeff

    So sorry for your loss. I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Lou

  • Guest: Patti Stubblefield Tooley

    From: West Frankfort, Illinois

    Date: September 7, 2014

    So sorry for your loss. Eternal Peace Grant unto her Oh, Lord and let your light shine upon her.

  • Guest: Aries

    From: , North Carolina

    Date: September 8, 2014

    May the family of dear Brenda find comfort in knowing that you are invited by our Creator, Jehovah God, to “throw all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you.” (1 Peter 5:7; Psalm 83:18) Take care and please accept my sincerest condolences.

  • Guest: The Sulc Family

    From: Chagrin Falls, Ohio

    Date: September 8, 2014

    Brenda was always so sweet and kind. She was always smiling. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.

  • Guest: Pat Huebner

    From: Mentor, Ohio

    Date: September 9, 2014

    So sorry to hear of this.. Jeff and Sam sending our deepest sympathy and prayers for strength for you both.. We have so many fun memories of our skating family years

  • Guest: The Savage Family

    From: Mentor, Ohio

    Date: September 9, 2014

    The Smith Family so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Many fond memories of our skating years.

  • Guest: Sandy Cooklin

    From: Chagrin Falls, Ohio

    Date: September 9, 2014

    So sorry to hear about your loss! We will always remember Brenda’s beautiful smile and happy disposition around the rink ! Our thoughts and prayers are with you!

  • Guest: Sue Harte

    From: Painesville, Ohio

    Date: September 9, 2014

    My sincerest sympathy to the entire Smith family during this most difficult time. I spent many hours with Samantha on the ice, and had a lovely relationship with her parents, Brenda and Jeff. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  • Guest: Leslie Modica

    From: Mentor, Ohio

    Date: September 9, 2014

    “…we never lose the people we love. They continue to participate in every act, thought, and decision we make…We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.”

    Jeff and Sam…We have been so blessed to have you as dear friends and neighbors. I have such fond memories of sharing skating and orchestra experiences with Brenda. We so enjoyed her cheery hospitality at the bonfires in your backyard. Speaking of yards, her love of gardening always shone bright in the care she took of her yard. It was always the most beautiful one on the street! Her support and kindness during our difficult time after Jerry’s accident were greatly appreciated and will never be forgotten.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

    Love,

    ~The Modicas…Leslie, Jerry, Jason, and Kelsey